I'm originally from South London, but I currently live on my own in Birmingham for work and university. It's been a journey adjusting to a new city, but I've embraced the experience.Self-care is a big priority for me, and I'm looking for someone who values it too. Connecting with someone who shares similar values and understands the importance of self-care would mean a lot to me.If we match and things go well, I believe in involving family early on. Out of respect for the process, I would forward the conversation to my older brother.